Mediation is a form of alternative dispute resolution. During mediation, a trained mediator acts as an unbiased, third party facilitator between you and your spouse. When you decide you are separating from your spouse, you will have a more or less standard set of issues that will need to be addressed, such as property division, child and spousal support, and a parenting plan.
Depending on the complexity of your case, the whole process can be concluded in a three or four-hour joint session, while sometimes it can take up to several such sessions. In both cases, we will first conduct a detailed individual intake session with each of you to get a good idea of the issues that are important to you, and the challenges we can expect ahead. Based on the intakes, a process tailored to your unique situation is designed ahead of any joint sessions. Contact us see if mediation is a good fit for you.
The mediator facilitates communication between the divorcing spouses, creating a safe and respectful environment for discussions. They ensure that both parties have an equal opportunity to express their concerns, interests, and needs.
The mediator helps the couple identify the key issues that need to be addressed, such as division of assets and debts, child custody and visitation, child support, and spousal support (alimony). They assist in clarifying each party’s priorities and concerns regarding these issues.
Divorce mediation focuses on understanding the underlying interests and needs of each party rather than just their stated positions. This allows the mediator to help the couple generate creative solutions that address the needs of both parties and any children involved.